3 Ways to Improve Your Relationship This Year

Whether you're in need of a relationship tune-up or seeking a little common ground, there are three ways to work on now.

Whether you’re in need of a relationship tune-up or if you just can seem to find common ground, there are some ways to improve your relationship this year.  Work on your communication. One therapist says the thing she notices the most with couples is they don’t listen to understand, but rather they listen to reply.  When you are speaking, don’t forget to focus on your tone of voice.  It can make a big difference in how they perceive what you’re saying.  Don’t be too critical either.  Stress, which most people deal with regularly can lead to negativity and arguments. Try to focus on the positive things in your relationships and be sure to let people know when you appreciate them.  Try spending a little time apart. That same therapists suggests that individuals can benefit from this plus, being away from them might make you realize just how much you miss them.  It could lead to reconnection.