How to Spice Things Up for National Date Your Mate Month!

Take your relationship to the next level with these dating ideas.

May brings many things to show appreciation for including your mate. A blogger on Down Redbud Drive has learned to make the most of life using creativity and shares some of her favorite date night ideas from romantic to simple fun and we added a few of our own.  Get out of a relationship funk with trying a new restaurant. It doesn’t hurt to step out of your comfort zone.  Go for a walk. This can be any time of the day. Or simply plan your meal in an area that is nice for a good stroll afterwards.  You could also plan a day to walk through one of our state parks.  Go go-cart racing! This can be for the married-for-years or those just getting to know each other.  There’s nothing like showing your side competitive and laughs along the way.  Places like Broadway Grand Prix is one place to go. Racing each other to the finish line will take your minds off the week’s stress or any kids.  All you’ll be able to think about is pressing the pedal to the metal.  Then you can carry the victories over into the arcade.  Go to a concert. get online and find where your favorite artist is playing next.  Check Facebook events in your area for live music happening and just choose one that sounds cool. Go with no expectations other than to be in the music moment. It’s scientifically proven that live music has calming effects. It lowers cortisol levels, blood pressure and pain, and just puts you in a good mood.  Hopefully that will carry into your upcoming week.  If you need extra help in planning these date nights, there’s a box for that.  There is a subscription box called Date Night In.  It’s for couples on the go or parents who find it hard to get a babysitter. The theme changes every month.  All the details are there for you, even the music.  There is often a booklet of activities matched with the theme, projects, dinner recipes and surprises such as cookie mix and cutters.