Want to Stop Arguing? Try This Relationship Hack

If you’re tired of arguing with your partner, here’s a relationship hack that might just save you both some stress.

The next time you’re fighting about something, ask each other, “On a scale from one to ten, how important is this to you?” A one means it’s really not that big of a deal, and a ten means it’s super important to you. The person with the higher number gets the final say.

Psychologists say this trick works because it helps couples understand how much something matters to the other person, which can strengthen a relationship.