Who Should Pay for the Birthday Dinner?

Etiquette experts weigh in on the debate.

When it comes to a birthday dinner celebration, it can be tricky knowing how to navigate the bill.

Some say the birthday person should cover the costs themselves, especially when choosing a pricey restaurant. Others say splitting the bill and covering the guest of honor is a must. Etiquette experts state the key to avoiding hurt feelings and awkward situations is good pre-party communication and planning. However, it’s generally more appropriate for the birthday person to pick up the bill if they are choosing the venue and handling all the arrangements.